As parents, our role is to provide a safe, supportive, and understanding environment for our children as they navigate this challenging period.

Here are some tips to foster a strong and healthy bond with your teen.

Do you remember how it feels when your parents are glued to their phones?

It’s disappointing when you come home and they’re too distracted to notice you. Instead, make a point to put down your phone and greet your teen with genuine enthusiasm.

A simple “Hey, how was your day?” can mean the world. For us, when our teen walks in, we always greet her with smiles and open arms.

Saying, “We missed you! Let’s catch up over a snack!” These cosy gestures show them that they are being considered and appreciated.

Have you ever felt ignored by your parents? At dinner, our teen shared her thoughts on a school project that didn’t align with ours.

Instead of correcting her, we listened closely.

“That’s an interesting point! Can you tell us more?” This approach shows respect and lets her know her opinions matter, even when we disagree. Everyone deserves to be heard.

Remember a time when you were down and your parents were there for you?

When our teen came home upset, we immediately noticed.

We offered a comforting hug and said, “We’re here for you. It’s okay to have tough days.”

Just being there — offering a hug or a kind word — makes a significant difference.

Have you ever felt your parents were hiding something from you? During a quiet moment, we shared our worries about balancing work and family.

“We hope you can talk to us about anything too.” Being open creates a safe space for her to share her feelings, building trust between us.

Have you ever felt like your parents were trying too hard to be cool? When we asked about her favourite TV show, we admitted, “We might not watch it, but we’d love to hear what you enjoy!”

Being genuine strengthens our connection and shows her we’re interested in her life.

Do you sometimes feel your parents are too strict or too lenient?

When discussing curfews, we came together and said, “We want you to have fun, but being home by 10 PM is important for your safety.” Setting clear rules helps everyone understand expectations.

Have you ever felt like your parents’ rules changed constantly?

Every day, we ask our teen about her day: “How was school? What did you learn?” This indicates that their experiences matter, and thus inducing a sense of security.

Do you sometimes feel your parents are too busy for you?

When she showed interest in a new hobby, we eagerly said, “Let’s do it together this weekend!”

Making time for activities she enjoys strengthens our bond and shows her she’s a priority.

Who do you admire most? One day, when we helped a neighbour carry groceries, we explained, “It’s important to help others.”

This simple act of kindness demonstrates respect and responsibility, setting an example.

If you realize you’ve made a mistake, a sincere apology can mend things.

For instance, if we reacted too harshly, we’d say, “We’re sorry for how we reacted; we should have listened better.”

Acknowledging our mistakes helps heal misunderstandings and builds trust.

Building a solid mutual relationship with your young kid takes a lot. With these pointers, you can create a positive environment for your child to grow and thrive.